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Monday 17 August 2009

not happy?

Complain complain complain but all in vain.

I have a million things which I am not not satisfied with, most of which I am very very unhappy about. However I have learnt too well that complaining will not help at all because it only draws the people around further and further away. Logically thinking, it is valid that they grow tired or get fed up when you are always scaring them though you do not mean it.

Staying silent.
Does it help? Does it make you feel better?
Sometimes not.
However, many times not staying silent might only make things worse when situations are already bad enough as they are.
Nevertheless, staying silent is not the best option all the time. In fact, it can never be a way out.

Voice out.
The question is, How?
Another question, Does anybody want to hear?
An important question, Will anybody understand? If not it would be redundant to even say a single word.

Understanding.
It is a two-way thing. And so it communication.

Helping hand.
Someone has to offer it, the other has to accept.


Where is that helping hand that once guided me through so many trials, which I need most now?
where are you...

5 comments:

elween said...

elween like this.

Joel Yap said...

elween likes joel more

Yan Hong said...

haha..joel..i also have many complaint but i have to keep quiet..haiz..it is sad..the world sometimes is too dark for us to say something that we dun satisfy..=)

Joel Yap said...

sigh,
no la... it's control.
Complaining is not good de.

YANHONG said...

but complaining can make improvement!!!!
HAHAHAHA~
=)